Get Out of My Head!, Episode 146
Repetition is one of the most powerful forces shaping your life, whether you realize it or not. The thoughts you repeat most often to yourself aren’t just background noise — they’re actively building the foundation for either your success or the very obstacles holding you back. In this episode, we dig into how repeated thinking […]
Be the Master of Your Universe – Without Bloodshed, Episode 145
Ever notice how the people closest to you—your partner, your coworkers, your family—seem to be the ones you clash with most? What trips most of us up isn’t that we disagree, it’s how we handle the disagreement once it starts. Be the master of your universe, without the bloodshed. In this episode, we dig into […]
Connect to Jurors With the Specificity of “Who”
You must connect with jurors if they are to find you convincing and persuasive. One of the prime, often most neglected ways to connect effectively with jurors is to get them up to speed with the “Who” in the case early on. Jurors feel disconnected when they can’t readily figure out who’s doing what to […]
Life Is Meant for JOY!!
What gets in the way of joy? Mostly, little stuff. As humans, we deal surprisingly well with crises. What really gets in the way of our everyday happiness is the everyday “stuff” we allow ourselves to focus on. You know, the petty annoyances, irritations, and unexpected hiccups of life. Like that supervisor who never, let […]
Want a Miracle After a Loss? Change Your Perception! Episode 144
Loss is never easy. Whether you’re grieving the absence of a person, a pet, a possession, or simply something that once brought you joy — the sting of losing something that mattered is universally human. But what if loss didn’t have to be the end of the story? In this episode, we explore a powerful […]
Take Charge of Your RAS! (huh?) Episode 143
Why is it you get stuck on what should be unimportant things that your children, co-workers or partner seem to inflict on you day after day? Why can’t you be “mature” and just let them go? Maybe it’s because you haven’t taken charge of your Reticular Activating System (RAS) — the part of your brain that determines […]
Handle Your Challenging CEO Client Successfully with “Yes, and”
Successful CEOs, entrepreneurs and surgeons (among others) can be difficult clients. Their very success too often leads them to believe they know everything about how to succeed in their legal matter. Which usually involves their wanting you to do something entirely different from what you know is the best approach to handling their case or […]
Get Yourself Back on Track!
Phyllis Diller, the famous American stand-up comedian, had a powerful practice I’ve used successfully for many years. Her advice? “My recipe for dealing with anger and frustration: set the kitchen timer for twenty minutes, cry, rant, and rave, and at the sound of the bell, simmer down and go about business as usual.” It’s wonderful […]
Is Listening A Competition? Or Are You Listening to Learn? Episode 142
Why is it that when you’ve just offered a perfectly decent opinion that just happens to disagree with your friend or partner’s opinion, the conversation goes south? Do you have to permanently agree with them to have a decent relationship? Are you listening to learn or is listening a competition? In this podcast, walk away […]
Use Your Mind to Combat Killer Stress! Episode 141
Is your job making you physically sick? Dreaded boss? Soul-crushing workday? Coworkers who drive you up the wall. If you’re stressed 24/7 and running on empty at work, this podcast is for you. In Episode 141, we dig into the mind-body connection and show you how to stop being a victim of your circumstances and […]